Love never dies.

 

Whether you want to connect to the wisdom of Ancient Ancestors or from a loved one recently passed; your loved ones go on and they want to continue relationship with you... if you're willing.

Our biggest fear in death is that our loved ones are gone forever. We are afraid that death means stopping. We are afraid that death means disconnection and separation until hopefully we are reunited together in the after life.

What if there's no reason to wait?

What if they have not gone anywhere, but only changed form and are eagerly awaiting our willingness to continue relationship in this new way?

 
 
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Grief is lonely and painful, and goes on and on, seemingly without end.

Our heart aches, our body aches and we are blind-sided by the recurrent loss of our loved ones at unexpected moments. We discover anew that they are gone from the way we knew them. We painfully stub our emotional toes on the corner of loss again and again.

We will never again touch our loved ones as they were. We will never turn to them in body to share a mutual joke or a meaningful insight or shared remembrance. We are left with the yawning emptiness of their vacancy in our lives.

Sometimes we fear that it will never get better and we cannot imagine going on like this without them.

You are not without them.

 
 

Let's Talk with the "Dead". Your "dead".

Your dearly departed have not gone that far away after all.

Open the door to communicating with your "dead" and begin this new phase of your relationship. It's not how it was. It can't ever be how it was, but the "dead" go on and they are eager to continue being in life with you.

 
I air quote “dead” because Irene did. She told me that no one could keep her away from her loved ones, just because they thought she was “dead”.
— Irene (not stopping, won't stop, can't stop loving)
 

Love goes on. Love doesn't stop just because we are no longer expressing Self in a physical body.

Open to the Presence of your loved ones. Ask me to talk to your "dead" and you can both begin the process of learning how to continue in communication together.

This is a new era of your relationship.

You have both been changed by this major event in your life. A re-alignment is required to shift to a new way of communicating, a new way of being in Presence with one another. This is a process that takes time and you are both learning a new language with which to communicate.

The intention is Love. The Presence is Love. The new language is Love.

 
 
 
 
 
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Grief leaves us feeling lost, empty and with a sense of being ‘not okay’ in our world, in our lives. Filled with pain and confusion we are aimless and distracted. We can be surprised by the venom of our anger and the unfair or unjust loss of someone so dear and precious to us. We fear that this will never heal, the pain will never end and we will go on falling down an eternal black hole of loss. The grief feels like a piece of ourselves has been cut off and erased from our lives.

 

It doesn't have to be so bad.

 

I will not minimize your grief or the pain of your loss and the changes and shiftings happening in your life.

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We must grieve death of the body.

We must grieve the titanic shift, the gigantic changes in our day to day experience. We must allow the re-arrangement of our physical lives to make room for the loss of our loved one's physical presence. That is required for healing.

So is the knowing that our loved ones have not ceased to exist.

They are not gone, just changed - and they are eager to reconnect with you in this new stage of reality.

Your pain is a natural part of the transition to a new relationship.

It doesn't have to be the debilitating pain of forever lost, forever gone - because that's not how love works.

 

That’s not how love works.

 

Talking with the "Dead" redirects aimless confusion back to focusing on establishing a new relationship. We can feel the pain of loss at the same time we practice reconnecting to our loved one's Presence. We can redirect our emotions and feelings to communicate with our "dead". We can share our thoughts and feelings with our departed and know that we are being heard.

They hear you.

Will you listen?

We have no choice but to go on without our loved one's physical body in the physical world, but their Presence with us is very real.

Love goes on, even after death of the physical body.

 
 
 

Grief is lonely.

Grief is a void. It robs us of sleep, appetite and joy. We can't focus or create or find enjoyment in the things that gave us pleasure. We lose meaning.

We are ghost people. Hollow husks of human beings.

We distract ourselves from feeling the feelings of grief. We don't go out or socialize, or we go out to distract ourselves and avoid our feelings. We binge TV or movies or video games to divert and pretend that we aren't in pain, aren't in loss.

We bury ourselves in work and schedules and 'to do's' to fill our time and our heads with tasks and achievements that leave no room for feelings we don't want to feel.

We don't take care of ourselves or our homes or our vehicles. We don't eat properly. We binge on sweets or snacks because feeding ourselves well and bringing care to our lives feels like a burden.

We have no energy. We have collapsed under the weight of our loss.

The loss is not total. It is only physical. The physical is not all of life.

 
 

Talking with the "Dead" can realign you with hope.

 
 

Your loss is devastating and there is more to the story than the end of your loved one's physical presence in your life.

Their Presence continues and you can begin anew.

You can accept your loved one back in your life; as they are, not how they were or how you wish it could be - but as it is.

This brings fresh newness to your life. It is not as it was, but it is not the dark and total eclipse you once believed. Previously tied up in oppressive loss, you can now bring energy to focus on new relationship building with your "dead". Your loved one is Present and available and wanting for you the best health and wellness possible.

This shift can bring larger depth and breadth to your life. Connecting to new relationship with your departed will return your self to a larger existence and deeper meaning of life that goes beyond the simple physically present world. Your connection to your loved one is no longer limited to the physical plane of reality.

 
 

The personality of the "dead" goes on.

 
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Their character and Authentic Self continues.

I can't say exactly what's happening because their perspective is one that I can't wholly comprehend while I remain in the physical plane.

The "dead" have a broader, more loving and holistic perspective and they most often have insight into the ups and downs of their life that they didn't have while incarnate.

I very often receive messages of understanding and forgiveness; for others and for themselves, depending on the situation. Some offer talismans and physical symbols of their presence to look for that will remind us that they are Present.

Others explain that a particular place or movie, song or activity that reminds their loved ones of them is because they are there with you when you feel their presence.

Again and again, the "dead" say there are no accidents and they accept that what happened was always going to happen. So often we hold on to unnecessary guilt and blame because we think that dying is the worst thing that can happen. It's not.

 

The worst is to believe that love dies with the body.

 

Our connection to our loved ones has never been limited to the physical plane. We're starting to wake up to the truth of Spirit on Earth. As a people, we are becoming courageous, and sharing our lived Spiritual experiences without apology or justification.

The reality of the "dead" continuing is becoming normalized.

I talk with your "dead" so that you can open the door to a new relationship with them yourself.

Talk with them. Feel for their Presence. Believe what you feel and hear. Trust in your experience.

Love goes on and they are with you.

 
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 Meaning in life can take a hard knock when a loved one dies. It's a gut punch and all the joy and juice of living in the world floats away like dust. Bereft of purpose, without our loved ones, we can feel untethered, set adrift.. floating without guidance or design.

My Grampa lost both his mother and his wife to cancer in the same week.

 
If there’s a hell, we’re living it on Earth.
— my sad, grieving Grampa
 

Poor Grampa. What a blow. Without love there is no purpose. It is a hell, or a punishment. We feel like we deserve this pain, and it feels like it will go on forever. We must deserve this loss and devastation, because why would we be going through this if we didn't deserve it? Why would this be happening if it wasn't our fault?

Death isn't justice. Death just is.

There is nothing to be gained in avoiding grief. We cannot stop the change of physical life from one state to another. Sickness, decay and death will not end, will not stop. Not ever.

 
Participate joyfully in the sorrows of the world. We cannot cure the world of sorrows, but we can choose to live in joy.
— Joseph Campbell

Shut up Joseph. What did he know anyway? (lol).

Life can still be filled with love and joy and meaning when death does not exclude our loved ones from our lives. When we know that our loved ones go on and that love continues and relationships are possible (only changed), we expand our participation in wholiness. We expand our conception of reality to encompass a much larger existence beyond the physical world.

Love lasts forever, and the pain of loss is there for as long as it serves our transition to love's expanded new reality.

We deserve love and oneness. We deserve to know that life continues and our loved ones still exist. We deserve to know that the "dead" are available and present for relationship and communication in whatever capacity we are ready to accept.

What kind of relationship would you like to have with your dearly "dead"? Let's find out.

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How does it work?

 

Once payment is processed, you'll be emailed a link to the submit page. Fill out the form provided and get the process started. You can submit online, from anywhere at any time. A picture and a name is all that is required.

You can ask whatever you want - potentially satisfy your curiosity*, get closure and reconnect with your loved ones in private, at your own pace and timing.

I offer this service as part of my path to normalize Spirit and the Unseen in the physical world. I offer an environment of acceptance and safety and an invitation to expand your experience and awareness beyond the physical limits of the world.

I am always accepting requests, although the wait time may be several weeks, depending on my reading schedule.

The urge to ask often happens in a reflective moment where we're willing to take a chance on the Unseen.

I have no interest in convincing anyone that the "dead" go on and still exist and still want relationship with us... This is truth and has been truth my whole life.

My service is available remotely and online for those who need to act on the decision right now and may second guess or talk themselves out of it if they needed to wait for "open" hours or to schedule a meet up.

The request itself is an act of belief that your loved one goes on and you're willing to be present in a new reality with them. This is not a small thing

 
 

What do you get?

 
 

I will send you an audio of the reading. Sometimes your loved one will allow/encourage me to speak for them.. "he/she/they say...." Sometimes your loved one will not allow/encourage another to speak for them and they will insist on me delivering their message directly... "I do, think, feel..."

I am not being "possessed". I am delivering what I'm given in the way that I'm directed. It is different for everyone because we are all so very unique souls.

Your audio reading will be downloadable by email link through Dropbox or WeTransfer. The audio is yours to listen to on your own time, at your own readiness. You determine your privacy and your boundaries around your audio reading. You can re-listen, re-absorb and gain more insight, as often as you want.

You can share your audio reading with whoever you wish to hear it.

 
 

I like the visceral, immediacy of the audio reading. I like the privacy and space for you to connect with the material on your own time, at your own pace. There is no need to have to engage publicly with your grief and loss. The readings are often emotional and can stimulate the grief and healing process. The audio gives personal time and space to re-connect and begin the process of re-establishing relationship with the departed.

I need only a photo (where I can see their eyes) and a name. It's easy. There are no specialized tools, there is no specialized language or instruction.

There's no friction when love wants to be shared. This can be as simple as breathing because the "dead" continue, much as they were before - just with less pain and more love and understanding.

*see FAQ for notes about questions 

 
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